Angie's LIST Guide to
Nursing homes

Nearly 70 percent of people 65 and older will require long-term care in the United States, the Department of Health and Human Servicesreports. At nursing facilities, physicians make rounds several times every week to address any medical issues that arise. Nurses and aides are available 24 hours a day and administer medications as directed by physicians, assist with bathing and dressing and provide balanced meals and snacks. Residents are encouraged to rise each morning, get dressed and dine with other residents. Activities are planned for residents every day, as is appropriate for their abilities. Groups and civic organizations sometimes pay visits to interact with residents.

Placing your loved one in a nursing home can be a heart-wrenching experience. Some people misguidedly think that this process is as easy as pulling up to the front door, walking in with a suitcase and checking in like at a hotel. The process is more involved that this. Significant financial considerations are necessary both for you and your loved one. If you think that nursing homes may be a good solution, you shouldn't wait until small problems become larger issues.

The average stay at a nursing home can range from $4,500 to $8,000 per month, and most people do not have the financial resources to pay for these expenses. Most nursing facilities are subsidized with government funds provided by Medicare and Medicaid, but you need to account for several factors, most importantly the assets available to your elderly relative. For some, their home constitutes their largest asset, and Medicare will conduct research to make sure that everything is in order. To help ease the transition of your loved one to a new home, consider soliciting the expertise of a social worker or attorney who specializes in elder law.

Most importantly, after your placing loved ones in a facility, do not lose touch with them. Visit them often to remind them that they have not been forgotten and are still loved. Providing regular support for your elderly loved ones while they adjust to life in a nursing facility makes the transition much easier.

The consistent involvement of family members is necessary for keeping abreast of any medical or behavioral issues taking place. Encourage them to interact with other residents and participate in planned activities, which will make their stay more pleasant and keep them healthier in the long run.